Showing posts with label Motherhood. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Motherhood. Show all posts

4 Apr 2015

Someone's swapped my baby

I've always been very fortunate that Thomas and Pippa have both slept really well at night. And now that they share a room in our new house I have been so thankful that they've continued to do so.  But the last two nights Thomas has decided that, between the hours of 7 and 11, sleep is soooo overrated. 



He is sitting on the sofa next to me as I type, watching The Voice and just "ba ba ba-ing" and giggling whenever I look at him.  Very happy and full of the joys of spring....yet as soon as I open his bedroom door the tears start.  Hmmm...someone has taken my baby and swapped him with an adorable, manipulative little rat bag. 


This is most un-conducive to mummy and daddy's social lives.....how are we meant to swan off on date nights and dinner parties now?!  Last night he joined in a dinner party with our neighbours, had a great time on a playmat whilst Daddy sampled the whisky collection.  Good parenting!

Well, let's hope he deigns to concede to bedtime soon, as mummy has lots of cooking to do in the morning, ready for a big family Easter Sunday lunch tomorrow. And a tired mummy makes for a lot of bad language in the kitchen and a very noisy smoke alarm. 

2 Apr 2015

It's too late.....

......see! I reeled you in with a catchy title, only to reveal that I'm officially the most useless blogger and my title actually just refers to the lateness of the hour and hence my lack of inspiration.  How disappointingly dull.  Apologies. 


26 Mar 2015

Spring is a-comin'


Well my little boy is now 9 months old, my daughter is 2 and a half and we have been living in our new house for 7 months.  Needless to say I have yet again had a ridiculous lapse in my blogging presence, however I am going to plead complete ignorance and carry on regardless.  One day I will fill in the blanks.  One day.  





I can't believe we've been here that long already.  But at the same time, it feels as if that August, when Husband returned from exercise and we then started the big move, was years ago rather than months.  Summer, too, feels like it ended years ago.   But, praise the Lord, in the last few days winter feels like it may be finally starting to wave goodbye.  




Whilst I am now very happy where we are and with the choices we made about leaving army quarters, winter has played its part in my initial difficulties in settling into our new little house.  It seems trivial, but just having the extra logistical challenges associated with the need for two sets of coats, hats, wellies, etc. to leave the house, together with less daylight hours and the requirement to use the car to go anywhere all served to make my days just a bit more of an effort.  




I yearn for the days of donning a pair of flip flops and strolling to next door-but-one on the patch for a play date, or throwing a rug onto the lawn and having lazy garden picnics amongst the rabbits, letting Rufus and the children go free-range.




Back on the old patch and in our old quarter garden



Whilst I am certainly going to have to use the car far more often than last year, play dates may be a bit more far-flung and the garden may be a 1/5th of the size of our old one, I can now see a summery light at the end of the tunnel.  Rolllllll on Spring! 







19 Nov 2014

A busy week...

I've not updated for a few days and I have found that I have missed my little debrief with my laptop at the end of the day.  Perhaps this is a sign that my sanity is finally seeing the effects of too many evenings on my own now?! I don't expect that this post will be overly exciting for anyone else to read, but I wanted to jot down our goings on regardless and it's an excuse to upload some piccies!

Tonight I am feeling slightly flat and have a massive case of brain freeze/head full of porridge feeling.  I blame a day with an extremely stroppy toddler (who threw extremely loud and embarrassing tantrums every time she had to be bent in half to get shoved into her pushchair or car seat) coupled with a spot of comfort eating after bedtime to make it all better.  But sadly I have thrown out all food that could even vaguely provide any form of comfort in my latest health craze, so in essence I have just wasted a binge on 'healthy-labelled' snacks, so zero satisfaction achieved!  On a positive, my part-time health drive did result in one of these for breakfast today.......despite appearances it was YUM!  





18 Nov 2014

A solo parent trip to London

On Friday Family Anthistle (minus Daddy obviously) jumped in the car and travelled into London to stay with friends in their new house in Clapham.  I thought I was being terribly brave to be taking all three of my dependents on a solo mission, but actually it was wonderfully easy. Sam and Bindy gave me such an amazing break, some proper respite from dog walking and child entertaining. 


   


9 Nov 2014

A weekend round-up in pictures

This weekend has been a busy one, with the Mini Market and visits to friends old and new. We also had a quick visit to Grandma and Grumps'.  Pippa was feeling a bit sorry for herself because of a bit of a lingering ear infection, but a cuddle from Grumps always works wonders.  The novel headgear helped too! 



6 Nov 2014

A caffeine filled day and a few too many selfies...


Today has been a standard Thursday for family Anthistle (or what's left of us without Daddy about).  Pippa goes to nursery on Thursdays and then Thomas and I go for coffee with a great group of mummies and their babies in a local pub. 



So what's been happening?!

So in a quick-fire, This Is Your Life stylee, here’s what’s been going on:

This happened:

We moved to our new quarter

……then this…..

5 Nov 2014

Where to start?


Where to start?  I know I have attempted to rekindle my blogging flame a few times since I stopped regularly updating over a year ago, but life just kept getting in the way......

9 Feb 2014

Pippa's first haircut.....by me!

I've been loving seeing Pippa's hair getting longer and longer, especially considering her early days of monk-style mullet and bald patches.  Despite the new length she still has a habit of rubbing the back of her head and getting her hair into little matts.  This makes the hair all fuzzy and break off, so her hair's been growing a little unevenly, longer at the front and shorter at the back....trendy possibly for a teenager, not so for a baby (can't believe I just used the word trendy). 



3 Sept 2013

A new leaf......


So I continue to be awful at updating my blog.  I feel so guilty, as it was meant to be something we could all look back on and reminisce about.  I have realised that the huuuuge backlog of posts I need to write covering the last 3 and a half months are just hanging over me and are putting me off blogging.....I feel that I have so much to catch up on that I don't know where to start and the whole prospect is becoming a chore.  

Some photos from this last weekend, when Pip, in her gorgeous 80's-esque romper suit, got adorned with a Chanel ribbon........that's sophostication, right there! Thank you Lulu at Berry Diaries for the amazing photography skills!

4 Aug 2013

Our first family holiday!

We went on holiday to South Wales, where we hired a holiday cottage with Grandma and Grumps for a week. The weather had been amazing all month and then the day before we left it turned.  Boo! It was still dry most of the time, we even managed a whole day on the beach (after much weather forecast browsing and wet weather planning!).  But luckily the cottage Grandma had chosen had really good living areas so it didn't matter if the rain forced us to stay inside on a couple of days. 


On a walk to a nearby headland.  Beautiful.

31 Jul 2013

July 2013 - a photo update

July was another lovely sunny month (right up until we went on holiday, more about that later though!).  Pippa thoroughly enjoyed her paddling pool, Rufus thought it was amazing and torture all in one, I was shocked he didn't try and get in once.  He just stared longingly! 


   

30 Jun 2013

June 2013 - photo update

So! The new house.  I think it's the nicest of our Army quarters yet.  It's big!
This is our new back garden, completely with a herd of rabbits, which Rufus loves! 


  


31 May 2013

May 2013 - photo update

Enjoying some early summer sun, before the packing begins.



22 May 2013

Moving day!

So the day has come......we're off!!  Here are some photos of the momentous day.

Although I don't want to leave at all, once you know the move is inevitable you start almost wishing yourself into the new place.  Just to be able to start re-settling, unpacking and getting back into normality.  So I have been half dreading and half looking forward to this day.  I am fairly sure the more positive side of my feelings towards this process may wear off quite quickly!



16 May 2013

What's in a bag? My first review!


I recently posted about what I lug about in my changing bag. I also said that whilst I love my current bag and all its practicalities it is rather boring to look at.  So I have been having a shop about for other options and thought I could turn this little mission into my very first review! BEWARE: there are lots of photos!

So the three bags are:

This was my original bad which we bought whilst I was pregnant. I apologise for the picture. It's rammed to the brim.  As you can tell!


I bought this as a present to myself as I liked the colour and the styling. 




I have been drooling over Mia Tui's website for ages (their demo videos just reel you in!) and felt like, out of all the bags I'd seen online, these seemed to have the perfect combination of practicality and style. So, I was thrilled to bits when the lovely Charlotte, who owns the company, offered to send me one to review. Errr YES PLEASE!!! 



So what do I think of each? 

Firstly the Mothercare bag.......

It has SO many compartments.  For anyone like me who like to organise their handbags to within an inch of their lives, will love this aspect. 

A huuuge mesh zip pocket.  I kept lunches, bibs, muslins
etc. in here. 
                                  
Another big zip pocket and two smaller pockets.
Bottle / water bottle pocket on the side

MORE pockets!
Insulated bottle pocket. Very useful and
worked well.
                                    
Zip on the back.  I kept the matching changing mat and
P's Red Book in here.
                                       
I particularly love the zip on the top of the flap to let you get quick access into the bag (essential when you've put the bag on the pram handle back-to-front and thus can't open the flap quickly). 



And also the zip on the front of the flap where I can keep all my bits and bobs with easy access. 

Yes, Rufus was helping!
                                   
I also liked the rubberised bottom (rahaha!).  It was great when you needed to put it down in a real rush and not worry about what you were putting it on / in!



However there are also a couple of things I am not a fan of. The main thing that consistently bugged me was that the closure mechanism is a small magnet concealed within the flap. This works absolutely fine if the bag is empty, or with very little in it, but as soon as the bag gets bulked out at all the magnet just isn't man enough to keep the flap closed. As they have been so clever with the top zip meaning you can actually access a lot in the bag without opening the flap, I think they could have used a sturdier clasp without having to worry about ease of opening too much. But to be fair to Mothercare this was really the only main problem I had with the bag. 

Case in point. 
                                      
The only other thing that did irritate me at times though was adjustment buckle on the shoulder strap. The strap would bunch up so that the buckle twisted 90 degrees.  This had absolutely no impact whatsoever on the day to day use of the bag, it just annoyed me that it didn't sit just so....I guess that's my OCD rearing its head?!

How the strap should be.....

How the strap misbehaved after 5 minutes.......I'm sure this
wouldn't bother any normal sane person. But it just grated
on me!



Secondly the Cath Kidston bag.....

This bag is gorgeous.  It's brilliant to look at, feels well made, came with lots of extras such as bottle warmers, changing mat, flannel and zip-up clutch bag thing. 

The front flap on the bag is actually the topo of the changing
mat.....sneaky....and clever!  I liked that, despite it not being
functionally of any use whatsoever! 


Zip pocket at the back. Nice and long zip but, again, too
tight to really be able to "delve" easily.  I like that word.
Delve.


Maybe I carry too much stuff around but I just found it a bit too small. Also the zip that runs along the top of the bag only allowed for quite a narrow opening.  It could do with being sewn into a winder strip of fabric to make a bigger opening, as I like to be able to open the bag and really see what's in there without having to dig about. I don't have any other criticisms really, I just realised very quickly that I had bought the bag more for its looks and it just wasn't delivering on the practical side.


The opening.   I would have prefered it if it had really bagged
out more so you could  see inside without having to use one
hand to hold it open. Maybe this would have got softer with
age?
                                   

Finally, the Mia Tui bag.....

I'll just make it clear that, even though Mia Tui have sent me this bag to review (which I am very grateful for!), I intend to be completely honest and unbiased. But, I shall say that Charlotte, if you read this, I am more than happy to review any of your other bags in the future!

I love this bag. I have had it for about 3 weeks or so now, I wanted to really get to use it properly in lots of different situations before I reviewed it.....to give it every fighting chance to surprise me with a hidden failing or fault. Nope.  It's brilliant! It's been used for quick trips into town, whole days out with various lunches, walks, suppers etc to cater for throughout the day, swimming trips and dog walks. It's survived and even excelled in all scenarios! 

I really love the look, it's imitation leather (for a real leather one you'd have to add a 1 or 2 onto the front of the price tag in the range of bags I'd been looking at), but it's good imitation...it feels very well made and not at all plastic-y. But the best bit is when you open it up! (incidentally the main zip on this bag is exactly what I was saying the Cath Kidston one could do with....nice and wiiide!) 

                                           

Well, the inside is VERY pink! And look at all those compartments! Even with each compartment filled there's still plenty and plenty of space in the main bag to shove changes of clothes, a blanket, a hat, or a scarf for me etc etc. 

                          
                         


The pockets have poppers so you can expand them to fit
more stuff in, or keep them closed to keep it all neat.
                                    
Pen holders, insulated and water proof
bottle pockets. And an elastic bungee
for your keys.  Genius.
                                                   
I love the separate mini bags, especially the little clutch bag. It's exactly the same size as a pack of baby wipes, so is perfectly sized to fit in 2-3 nappies, a pack of wipes and a pack of nappy bags, so when you need to change the baby's nappy you can just take that with you, rather than hoiking the whole bag along.

Long shoulder strap for the bag (I use
this to put over the pram handle); clear
plastic bag which we use for toiletries
and medicines etc and; the mini clutch bag.
                                   
I would 100% recommend the Minnie Amelie (or any Mia Tui bag...they all look great!) and honestly I am really struggling to find any criticisms.....I think if I had to choose something I'd say I'm not mad keen on the white stitching, a matching brown would give it just a bit more of a luxurious look.  But that's just personal taste....and you could always whack on a bit of shoe polish and voila! The only other thing I'd suggest is to have a slightly larger zip pocket on the front for mummy's stuff.  I'd like to see the pen holders and phone slip on the inside of that pocket instead, then all your stuff would be well and truly separate.

The zip on the front.
                                   
So, in summary,  I would definitely say that the Mia Tui wins for me.  I still find myself hankering after a couple of the practical features of the Mothercare bag that would add even more to the Minnie Amelie, but it is just so lovely and more than makes up for it in every way.  Also, it doesn't necessarily look like a changing bag, whereas the Mothercare one could be nothing but. Post baby/ies I can totally see myself using the Amelie day-to-day.  So it wins on longevity too!

My only real quandary now is how I can persuade Husband to let me expand my range and buy up the rest of the Mia Tui collection.  Go on, have a look....they're soooo multi-functional and come in all shapes, sizes and colours! http://miatui.com/collections/our-complete-range.


Our first tastes of Summer.

So the summer arrived!....and then went....then arrived again!!......and has now gone again. Apparently there's even been snow in Cornwall this week.....in May!?  But in the odd spells of glorious weather that we have had I have been able to get the old pram out again. 






I know I posted here that I wasn't yet brave enough to perambulate down the street with it.....well that fear was quashed pronto! I am proud of our big beauty and it certainly proved to be a talking point.  Pippa seems to love sitting up in it so she can see over the sides and take in the view.  I must say that with the pram's oh-so-bouncy suspension it must be a pretty good core strength workout!



I just love it, somehow even if I haven't managed to tick off anything from my to-do list in the day, I still feel like I've been productive if the sun's shining!


We've been having lunch outside, play dates with Rufus outside and visits to friends in her sweeeeet little sunhat. 





In the garden at Claire and Pippa's house (and Keith's house
too, obviously!)